• a thin woman and a fat woman standing back to back wearing the same style of short blue skirt
    Quick Notes

    Fat Clothes

    I recently traveled to visit a friend and somehow failed to pack enough clothes. Halfway through my trip I found myself in sudden need of a new wardrobe. 20 years ago this would have been a crisis. The stores that…

  • Nature

    Red tailed hawk

    I clocked a red-tailed hawk today, visually, and I caught its screeches on the Merlin app. Since I started logging birds around The Wallow, I’ve found red tailed Hawks and red shouldered hawks. What I haven’t seen are coopers hawks.…

  • Burn Life

    Brabble & Grubble

    Hey it’s a theme camp! What’s a theme camp? Here’s one explanation from the regional burn Transformus. If you asked me “What do you LOVE?” I might think of my children and honeybees and medium rare ribeyes and my truck…

  • Sanctuary

    Dreaming of Community at The Wallow

    The Wallow is what we call the land where I live with my extended family in two log houses plus have a couple of acres to play around with. We have done some gardening and some livestocking and some rewilding.…

  • What's in a name?
    Writing

    The Power of a Name

    Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego are the central characters of a Christian Bible story. They walk into a fiery furnace and then emerge unharmed. These characters took central stage in a church sermon I heard once about cult-behavior and the three…

  • Life,  Writing

    I’ve Discovered Where I Keep My Fucks

    I’ve never had that many fucks to give. And I’ve also always given way too many fucks. It’s a conundrum. It’s that I’m depressed, I’m anxious, I’m an asshole thing that’s kind of hard to explain unless you, too, are…

  • Writing

    Those Sneaky 70s

    This is the story of how the 70s sneaked up on me in a dark alley once. I was born in 1977, but it was well into the 80s before I had a sense of the passage of time and…

  • Woman with dreadlocks and Burning Man tattoo holds a newborn baby
    Writing

    Things Less Important

    Originally published: 7/6/2011 On the morning of September 11th, 2001 I was a nanny for an infant I’ll call Chrissy. I was hanging out with Chrissy in the living room of her family’s home, watching a Little House on the…